Thanks Guys for such an overwhelming response for the previous post. This is a continuation story, please read Part 1 if you landed here directly.
So my mind is made up I land at SF airport. Ammu and Amit [My brother in law] come to pick me up. Before ammu hugs me. I tell her
Dhaval : I am joining crossfit gym from tommorow. We need to find one near our home.
Ammu : Is this like the time where you said, you wanna be a photographer, you were persistent, you emotionally blackmailed me and then i got you a DSLR for your birthday and we never used it after our honeymoon ?
Dhaval : No, yaar this is serious.
Ammu : SO WAS I, when i told you "Dhaval 500$ for a digicam which you will never use !!!!". How about the time we bought the cool realistic looking airgun which is sitting next to the digi-cam because "Laad saheb ko Nishanchi banneka hain." [Prince wants to practise shooting.]
Dhaval : Are that is a really cool looking airgun.Yaar understand me please, this time i am full-on ready, motivated, good to go. "Passion meri aankhon mein dekh. "
[See the passion in my eyes.]
Ammu : Muje sirf bank account se paise jaate hue dikh rahe hain, Aur Cross fit gym bhi dikh raha hain, Lekin tu andar jaata hua nahi dikh raha hain.
[All i can see is money going from our bank account, I can see a crossfit gym too, but i cannot see you going in.]
Amit : Hold on guys!!! How about this ? Dhaval you start with a home -workout. See if you are doing it regularly. You do enough days you go the Gym ?
Ammu agreed to this, because it was lesser investment. Sometimes i contemplate Am i a gujrati who has married a tamilian ? or Am i a gujrati who has married a tamilian who has a soul of a marwadi ?
God too complicated, coming back to the topic.
I started my first workout in December 2015
21 Day Fix :
Link : https://www.beachbody.com/product/fitness_programs/21-day-fix-simple-fitness-eating.do
This was a workout routine which went for 21 days. Surprisingly, i finished the 21 day routine. I could lift light weights do 6 to 8 pushups used to do yoga poses etc. I stretched it to a month repeated 9 days of my favorite easy workouts.
Doing this workout i realised following things :
1. Although it was a easier workout compared to what i do today, it was an excellent workout regime to start because it got me hooked to the idea of working out as soon as waking up.
2. My hands were actually stronger than what i give them credit for.
3. I can prove Ammu wrong once. [Guilty pleasure :) ]
I felt there was no weight loss, no muscle gain, but i started feeling healthy and happy. I was tired the first week but from second week i was into the workout.
After the first easy workout i was ready to take it up a notch. My next home-workout would be Insanity.
Link : https://www.beachbody.com/product/fitness_programs/insanity.do
I went confident and strong into insanity home-workout routine. I thought i will nail the workouts. 21 day fix had given a bit of false confidence. The first workout of insanity crushed me. I was sweating from the places i didn't knew existed in my body. Insanity is complete body weight workout and does not require any equipment.
It was tough, it was insane when i think about it i really dont understand how i went through 3 months. The difficulty level is still tough for me. It would take mental preparation before starting the workout. Sometimes the fear of failure is worse than failure itself. Something like that used to happen to me.
But post workout results would be great. I would be drenched in sweat and was really active during the day. Suddenly i had more energy than before.
Doing Insanity taught me following things :
1. I can do extremely difficult things if i motivate myself enough.
2. I can actually do a proper workout without a physical trainer or a GYM.
3. My hands are becoming stronger dude. 20 pushups is not a bad number at all.
During course of insanity i was maintaining a workout diary. everyday i used to write down the workout i did and my present weight. This is where i first saw results.
I had reduced 10Kg in period of 3 months. Diet was loosely monitored mostly Ammu made at home and 5 days of workout with one day break. Insanity was tough, effective and really worked for me.
During the end-months of Insanity i started researching for the next workout which i am going to do. I stumbled across P90X. Now P90X is a great workout but it needs some equipment.
It needs pullup-bar, pushup-assist, and a Bowflex SELECTTECH dumble and a proper gym glove which would support my wrist when i am doing pushups / pullups.
Bowflex SELECTTECH dumble :
Dhaval : Ammu i need to buy dumbbells.
Ammu : o.k. [ i think she was making paneer bhurji. ]
Dhaval : They are worth $599, if i order today we can get it shipped in 2 days.
Ammu : Are you insane $99 ka dumbbells uthayega ? Kabhie grocery toh uthata nahi hain ? I saw in TJ Max 20$ 30$ you get some dumbbells woh le lenge.
Dhaval : First of all last 2 weeks se maine grocery uthaya hain and secondly dumbbells $599 ka hain and you don't get it at T.J. Max and its not buying one dumbbell it's like buying a whole gym rack at your home.
Ammu : Are mere Arnold first you take this bhurji go to office i will think of something when you come back.
Dhaval : Pakka ?
Ammu : Aur teri ankhon ka passion ? tera crossfit ka kya hua ?
Dhaval : Tu mazza lena bandh kar.
We are like that. We fight, pull each others legs but figure out a way. Now ammu was no way spending money on a new dumbbell that was a guarantee. But she also had to get me a new one before my current workout get's over, she had seen me workout 4 months consistently. She was in a big dilemma with a hard timeline. And seeing me she also started working out. Being the dancer she is she started doing "Hip Hop Abs".
I come home from office
Ammu : Achha Dhaval i got the dumbbells for you. You have to pick them up from "Antonio", he lives in san fransisco.
Dhaval : Kaun Antonio ? yeah kaise logon se sath baat karta hain tu .
[Who Antonio ? and whom are you talking with these days ?]
Ammu : This guy is from craigslist. Mexican hain, uske dad ne usko gift diya tha, yeah dumbbell uske garrage mein tha. he does not use it. He is giving us for $199.
[He is a mexican guy, i found him in craigslist, his dad gifted him these dumbbells, they are sitting in his garrage, he does not use it and he wants to sell them from $199 ]
Dhaval : Tu kitna genius hain.
Ammu : Woh toh main hu.
Dhaval : Main kitna dabbuu hain
Ammu : Hai re meri kismat !!!!
Having all my equipment in place i started my third home-workout routine.
Link : https://www.beachbody.com/product/fitness_programs/p90x.do
Now this was a very different workout. it required me to push, pull my body weight. There were dumbbells involved. My previous two workouts were almost 80% cardio. Workout for me at this stage had become a habit, it became as organic as taking a shower after waking up. P90X was easier workout than insanity but it involved a lot of weight training.
From P90X i realized following things about myself :
1. I can lift heavier weights now.
2. I can do 30 pushups and 5 pullups in 30 minutes workout [The challenge.]
3. I can fit into size Medium.
The workouts which i did after P90X were P90X + and P90X3.
Last December 2016 i completed one full year of working out. It's been a wild and fun journey. I feel exercise has transformed not only the physical but also the mental aspect of my being.
All this months working out resulted in
- Ammu bought me a new watch which i can wear proudly and each time i look at the time it brings smile to my face.
- I started with 5 pull-ups but now in 30 minutes "The Challenge" workout i can do 270 pushups and 100 pullups.
- Exercise is a very great habit, once you get that you get into other habits like eating healthy sleeping 8 hours, etc...
- I can do skiing, one more sport which i have learned and am proud of. walk more miles without complaining and obviously dance more hours on my favorite bollywood number with Ammu.
I feel to shy to share this, but kya kare, script ki demand hain :)
it's a work in progress ... but i feel i have come up a long way from not being able to wear a watch to doing 100 pullups.